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Leadership Insights from Lisa Marie October 2006
Issue 1, Volume 10

Greetings!

Autumn is here – my favorite time of the year. The word autumn refers to the autumnal equinox that marks the start of this season. Depending on what part of the United States you live, the term may be interchanged with the word “fall”. An online search indicates several theories about where the use of the word “fall” came from. One theory presupposes the term started in the South where the word autumn seemed to invoke a colorful season that didn’t occur there. The most popular theory presupposes that it was used because of falling leaves.

The season arrives in all parts of the country regardless of what you call it. Even in Southern California, the air turns cool and crisp, bringing back many, many fond memories of growing up in Pennsylvania. The magnificence of the varying shades of red and orange brought me comfort on my annual family retreats to World End State Park. As a kid, it was the best time to go camping because you could get lost in the leaves. It isn’t only the beauty of the season that I find special but what it represents. Renewal, rebirth and letting go are all critical elements to succeed in business and in life.

May you schedule the time you need during this autumn season to identify all of the items in your life that you need to let go of in order to fully prepare for the new opportunities waiting to be discovered. There’s more waiting for you than you ever thought possible!

All the best,
Lisa Marie Platske, President
Upside Thinking, Inc.

in this issue
  • Let Go to Truly Grow
  • Featured Business with an Upside Attitude
  • Upside Quotation Station
  • Leadership Tales and Trivia Corner
  • Start Growing!
  • About Lisa Marie

  • Featured Business with an Upside Attitude
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    Write Well, Write Now, Inc. is a company dedicated to one goal: Helping individuals meet their personal, academic, and professional goals by learning to write well. We approach our mission through individualized instruction administered online by private writing coaches.

    We have a rather unusual corporate vision shared by each of the employees at our company: We are all committed to working from home. The president, and every salesperson, mentor teacher, computer programmer, and our advertising and marketing crew work from home. Why? Because we value flexibility and believe that we can be effective workers without having to deal with the snarls of freeway traffic and the expenses of travel. This enables parents to stay at home and rear their children and singles to enjoy their hobbies and other interests.

    Our company works with large corporations and government entities (such as the U.S. Department of the Navy), universities, high schools, and private individuals. Although we have many, many native- English speaking customers, one of our largest groups of clients is English Language Learners. We teach CBEST writing for potential teachers. Many English language learners had previously failed the CBEST test up to nine times before learning about our company. After just one 8- or 16-week Write Well, Write Now writing course, each student has passed the CBEST test on the very next attempt. We've never had a student fail the CBEST after completing our program.

    We're big believers in "upside thinking" at WWWN. We believe that every person can learn to write well and meet personal and professional goals, even those with significant handicaps. We work with the California School for the Deaf in Riverside, California and will soon be working with the Georgia School for the Deaf as well. Because our program is personalized, we're able to begin at the student's current writing level and move them rapidly forward toward mastery. Profoundly deaf high school students generally read at the third grade level or below and many write at less than the Kindergarten level before they begin our program. We love the challenge of bringing these students rapidly up in writing competency and concurrently improve their reading levels. Our mentor teachers enjoy giving these precious children a future by teaching them how to write and read and eventually how to pass the California High School Exit Exam.

    We support education! In the last two years, we have donated more than $40,000 in writing scholarships to the University of California at Riverside for their Copernicus Project – a project designed to create excellent science teachers in a time where there is a shortage of talented educators in the state. We've also adopted San Bernardino High School to provide writing instruction to the students there who would like to pass the SATs and go to college.

    As the president of Write Well, Write Now, my leadership vision for the future of my corporation is to expand our business internationally and to create hundreds of stay-at-home jobs that provide a respectful income for highly trained mentor teachers and other necessary company staff. Starting in May of 2007, we'll be selling Write Well, Write Now licenses for cities throughout the United States and the world so that teams of independent business owners may also have a chance to enjoy at-home prosperity while helping people succeed in writing.

    The best part of creating and leading my corporation is ... I walk about 25 feet up to my office, and I'm here when my teenagers get home from school. It's nice to be the president, but it's even nicer to be Mom.

    Alisa Griffis, Ph.D.
    President
    Write Well, Write Now, Inc.
    www.wwwnUSA.com


    Upside Quotation Station
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    “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader."
    John Quincy Adams
    (1767-1848)
    6th President of the United States


    Leadership Tales and Trivia Corner
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    If your feeling like a strong cup of coffee and a good book, try The 75 Greatest Management Decisions Ever Made ... And Some of the Worst -- Business Leaders Talk about the Good and the Bad by Stuart Crainer.


    If you're in the mood for popcorn and a movie, try Family Man (because you don't always get a second chance to evaluate your decisions...).

    And, if you're feeling lucky, answer our October trivia question! The book A Hand to Guide Me is about many successful people in all walks of life and their personal stories of who influenced them. The book originally started out about an actor who was profoundly influenced by the power of mentoring. Name the actor and the organization that profoundly affected his teen years. A prize will be awarded to the 1st person who e-mails the correct answer to us!

    Trivia Winners Circle!
    January - Danny Rich, Stellar Financial
    February - Ilse DiPinto, DiPinto & Associates
    March - Susan Terberg, Riverside Community College
    April – Jack Harris, Gilmartin, Harris & Associates
    May - Aaron Knight, Amerinet Finance, Inc.
    June - Hank Rogers, RCC-CACT (Center for Applied Technologies)
    July - Tom Nightingale, Wells Fargo
    August - Dennis Sonney, CA Manufacturing Technology Consulting
    September - Dustin Ubrun, Anser Coding, Inc.


    Start Growing!
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    Interested in learning more about how to develop your clear leadership vision, increase your sphere of influence/clientele and improve your long-term growth and steady profits? Call Lisa Marie today to learn more about our Upside Thinking coaching packages!

    Back by popular demand! Receive 20% off any individual leadership coaching package or leadership presentation for your organization booked in the month of October!


    About Lisa Marie
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    As the President and Chief Excellence Officer of Upside Thinking, Inc., Lisa Marie brings enthusiasm and passion to her work every day. Committed to transforming organizations through individual development, Ms. Platske believes lasting success in organizations comes from recognizing that people have intrinsic value and deserve respect, regardless of where they are in the organizational chart. UTI's leadership coaching and training programs teach individuals how to develop their leadership ability, increase their sphere of influence and strengthen their earning potential.

    Let Go to Truly Grow
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    When I worked for the United States Customs Service in Newark, New Jersey, my area director and mentor, Ms. Kathleen M. Haage-Gaynor, gave me countless words of wisdom. One instance in particular stands out. In 1996, I had enrolled in a leadership development program and part of the curriculum involved a 360 assessment where I asked my co-workers to rate my level of management skills within 8 core areas for approximately 120 statements. The phrases they were invited to assess included statements such as “Negotiates persuasively” or “Inspires people to excel” and were placed next to a scale ranging from 1 - 5.

    When I received the results, I couldn’t believe my eyes. My peers, subordinates and immediate supervisor had evaluated my skills and abilities as above average, giving me glowing marks, while my mentor who had given me numerous “special” assignments checked off boxes reflecting “average” and, occasionally, “needs improvement”. It took me two weeks to calm myself down to discuss the assessment. When we met, I explained that I was disappointed about her rating and wanted to better understand why she didn’t rate me higher. (Looking back, I envision me being much more tactful but at that time in my life I hadn’t yet learned emotional intelligence ... which is probably why she rated me a “needs improvement” on “Expresses disagreement tactfully and sensitively”. Upon questioning her, she gave me some of the best advice I have ever received – ‘You’re not perfect, Lisa, and it’s something you should never forget. Individuals who achieve much are continually learning, growing and striving to be better than yesterday. Use my comments to give you direction, studying the skills you need to improve, to ensure you will excel in work and in life.’ I was embarrassed by my pride and in awe at this woman and her sage advice. To this day, I live the lesson she taught me, always open to learn from others, spending time and money on personal and professional development.

    This story was the beginning of my “Let Go to Truly Grow” motto for success. Moving forward in life requires a continual evaluation of goals and plans and taking the time to honestly assess whether our actions -- what we’re doing -- still work for us. Ms. Haage’s feedback shed light on an area that is too often forgotten. Plans for excellence typically start with writing down meaningful goals and then focus on how to implement a plan of action, incorporating details through visualization. Rarely, however, do leaders spend time evaluating their decisions.

    When I founded Upside Thinking, Inc., I was determined to build an organization that would help others find more happiness, success and meaning in their life through individual development and understanding the power of possibilities. The definition of “upside” isn’t interchangeable with the word positive. Upside means to see the possibilities in every circumstance. My goal is to empower others to make the best choices possible for their business and life. I continually review where I am, where I’m going and whether I like the direction the company is moving in. Like I said last month, excellence is a journey, not a destination. Working more hours doesn’t guarantee happiness, success and meaning. Upside Thinking, however, does.

    So, when is the best time to evaluate a decision? Evaluation is an ongoing process. It isn’t something that you schedule every Tuesday at 2:30 p.m. Because every decision we make leads to discovery – discovering more about ourselves, our wants, needs and desires -- evaluation must be treated like breathing and become part of who we are. In addition to my everyday assessments, in November, I will take three weeks off to evaluate my personal goals, goals for my marriage and future goals for Upside Thinking, Inc.

    Evaluation isn’t a solo venture. A doctor doesn’t give himself check-ups anymore than a good coach can coach him/herself. I encourage you to enlist help from others. We all need more than one person to provide us with fresh perspective and to keep us on course. I can’t tell you how many times I hear the question, “How do I find someone willing to help me?” The answer is simple. Just ask.

    Remember, it’s all about the upside journey. Many blessings on your path to amazing and outrageous success!

    Did you know?

    About 700,000 leaves fall from the average mature oak tree every year?!?

    Although the concept of mentoring is an ancient one, in a contemporary sense, mentoring may be described as a complex interactive process between individuals of varying levels of expertise and experience, incorporating individual and career development. (Wunch, 1993)

    Freddie Laker mentor to Richard Branson (founder of Virgin Atlantic Airways) told Branson, "Make a fool of yourself. Otherwise you won't survive."

    Evaluation is the systematic determination of merit, worth, and significance of something or someone. Evaluation often is used to characterize and appraise subjects of interest in a wide range of human enterprises. (Excerpt taken from Wikipedia)

    In 2003, Louis P. Masur, a professor of history at City College of New York, wrote an incredible book entitled Autumn Glory: Baseball’s First World Series about the 1903 World Series. (Modified from the front cover flap ...A post-season series of games to establish supremacy in the major leagues was not inevitable in the baseball world in 1903. But the owner of the Pittsburgh Pirates (in the well- established National League) challenged the Boston Americans (in the upstart American League) to a play-off, which he was sure his team would win. They didn’t—and that wasn’t the only surprise during what became the first World Series. It is the story of two agonizing weeks in which the stars blew it, unknown players stole the show and hysterical fans got into the act.)

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