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Leadership Insights from Lisa Marie December 2006
Issue 1, Volume 12

Greetings!

Christmas trees have been sold commercially in the United States since about 1850 and are grown in all 50 states including Hawaii and Alaska. 77 million Christmas trees are planted each year with more than 1,000,000 areas of land used to plant Christmas trees. While the celebration of Thanksgiving has a special place in my heart, some of my most treasured memories fall in during the Christmas season. One in particular involves the Christmas tree – KIRK.

My family always invested in a live Christmas tree. My mom picked a date to take the annual drive to a local tree farm and select the perfect one. We scoured the field, looking at the color and texture of the branches and, of course, the price! After we made our decision, my mother would have it cut down and tied it to the roof of our car as we sang Christmas carols on the drive home.

When the tree was inside and all of the lights and garland were wrapped around, we would each be given a section of the tree to hang our personal ornaments. (You received an ornament each year, therefore, if you were 15 years old, you had 15 or more ornaments. If you were only 6 years old, you had six ornaments.) One year, my brother Ed who is about 9 years younger than me, realized that he had less ornaments than everyone else. As the tree was brought inside the house, he yelled, “I want that ornament. That ornament is mine.” My parents, sister and I looked at him, not knowing what he was talking about. Hanging on the tree was a blue & white plastic tag that said “KIRK” and my brother was claiming it as his ornament. We all laughed and, over 20 years later, “KIRK” still hangs on the tree and remains a wonderful Christmas memory.

While Jim & I will be celebrating Christmas quietly, it will truly be a celebration. We will celebrate the many amazing clients and friends that have been sent into our lives, his incredible staff at the AMOC, the many speaking engagements and other opportunities that have been presented to me throughout the year and the blessing of a supportive family and a healthy body.

I encourage you to make a list of all you have to celebrate in your life. May your list be long as you identify all of the connections that have come your way throughout 2006. To my friends, colleagues and business associate new and old, l thank you for bringing much joy to my life ~ Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!

All the best,
Lisa Marie Platske, President
Upside Thinking, Inc.

in this issue
  • Being a Gift to Others
  • Featured Business with an Upside Attitude
  • Upside Quotation Station
  • Leadership Tales and Trivia Corner
  • Need Help Being a Gift to Others?
  • About Lisa Marie
  • Save the Date: Visonary Business Conference
  • NAFE News

  • Featured Business with an Upside Attitude
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    Ms. Susan Goodson began her career with Mary Kay Cosmetics in 1973, when she was recruited from an Orange Julius stand in South Coast Plaza. While she enjoyed the work, because of personal and professional challenges in her life, she gave up the freedom and stress of entrepreneurship for a steady full-time job. Five years later, she was reintroduced to Mary Kay. The challenges she faced hadn’t changed, however, someone saw something wonderful in Susan and knew that she would be successful.

    That was 27 years ago. A consultant for 2 years, Susan became a director at the age of 26. Despite many personal challenges, she’s always had a smile on her face, product in her car, appointments on her books while simultaneously caring for three young children. By living in the present, taking life one day at a time and trusting in God, Susan became a super- star.

    Her leadership motto is to be of service to others, not only as an incredibly talented beauty consultant and leader but as a strong woman. Susan openly shares her personal story of domestic violence with other women and provides counsel, guidance and support.

    Susan is an upside thinker who finds unlimited possibilities in all she does which is why she recently formed a non-profit 501(3)c organization, “Angels to Action" whose mission is to give support and comfort to those who are struggling with physical and/or emotional trauma by providing an Angel Blanket to wrap themselves in as they travel through this difficult time.

    Ms. Goodson has a wide selection of holiday gift baskets, including custom gifts designed specifically for all your clients, family and friends with prices ranging from $12.00 to $299 She can be reached at (951) 321-6347 or (951) 683-2195.


    Upside Quotation Station
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    “Time is limited, so I better wake up every morning fresh and know that I have just one chance to live this particular day right, and to string my days together into a life of action, and purpose."

    Lance Armstrong (1971 - )
    U. S. cyclist, 7-time winner of the Tour de France


    Leadership Tales and Trivia Corner
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    If your feeling like a strong cup of coffee and a good book, try The Present: The Secret to Enjoying Your Work And Life, Now! by Spencer Johnson (because one of the most important lessons in leadership is to live in the moment).

    If you're in the mood for popcorn and a movie, try Miracle on 34th Street (because to be a good leader, you've gotta believe! ~ And, it brings back fond memories because I watched it with my grandfather every day during the Christmas season when I was a little girl).

    And, if you're feeling lucky, answer our December trivia question! When was the 1st tree placed at Rockefeller Center? By Whom? A prize will be awarded to the 1st person who e-mails the correct answer to us!

    Trivia Winners Circle!
    January - Danny Rich, Stellar Financial
    February - Ilse DiPinto, DiPinto & Associates
    March - Susan Terberg, Riverside Community College
    April – Jack Harris, Gilmartin, Harris & Associates
    May - Aaron Knight, Amerinet Finance, Inc.
    June - Hank Rogers, RCC-CACT (Center for Applied Technologies)
    July - Tom Nightingale, Wells Fargo
    August - Dennis Sonney, CA Manufacturing Technology Consulting
    September - Dustin Ubrun, Anser Coding, Inc.
    October - Andy Culver,Viasys Healthcare
    November - Patricia Hinojosa, AG Edwards

    * Please visit Lisa Marie's website to add your comments to her blog - especially about your favorite Christmas memories!

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    Need Help Being a Gift to Others?
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    Interested in learning more about how to develop your clear leadership vision, increase your sphere of influence/clientele and improve your long-term growth and steady profits? Call Lisa Marie today to learn more about our Upside Thinking coaching packages!


    About Lisa Marie
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    As the President and Chief Excellence Officer of Upside Thinking, Inc., Lisa Marie brings enthusiasm and passion to her work every day. Committed to transforming organizations through individual development, Ms. Platske believes lasting success in organizations comes from recognizing that people have intrinsic value and deserve respect, regardless of where they are in the organizational chart. UTI's leadership coaching and training programs teach individuals how to develop their leadership ability, increase their sphere of influence and strengthen their earning potential.


    Save the Date: Visonary Business Conference
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    Creating Business From the Inside Out

    At the conference you will learn to:
    Build a visionary business
    Bring your soul to work
    Become a visionary leader
    Connect business and spirit
    Implement spirit-driven strategies
    Make a living & Have a life

    SPEAKERS:

    Rev. Margaret Shepherd * Jamie Walters * Jack Barnard * Dawna Jones * Linda Landon * BJ Gallagher * Chellie Campbell * Stewart Levine * Lisa Marie Platske * Michael Peter Langevin

    FEBRUARY 1, 2, & 3

    LAX Plaza Hotel, Los Angeles

    FEE: $497 / $597 after January 15th
    For more information/register: www.speakerservices.com/visionary.biz
    310-822-4922


    NAFE News
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    Lisa Marie had an article entitled "5 Tips to Help Make Your Group Excellent" featured in NAFE's November e- newsletter. If you are a NAFE member make sure to check it out at www.nafe.com.

    Being a Gift to Others
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    When I was a little girl growing up in Allentown, PA, I had a very special friend – my dog Edison (or Eddie as my sister and I called him before we “inherited” our brother, Ed). He was wonderful because no matter what I experienced during the day he was always there for me. If I had a particularly bad day, or good day, at school and wanted to tell someone all about it, Edison would listen patiently until I finished the entire story. If I needed someone to play with or take a walk with, Eddie would be at my side without protest. And what I remember most of all is that when I came through that door after school each day, he showered me with unconditional Love. No questions or demands, he was there for me to hug, squeeze and pet.

    When I reflect upon these childhood experiences with Eddie, I believe there are some leadership lessons that we can integrate into our personal and professional lives. As a husband, wife, father or mother, when you walk in the door after a long day to whom do you give more unconditional Love – your spouse, your children or the dog? How intentional and sincere are you at turning off the wants, needs and expectations you have for your spouse and children and giving your undivided attention to them, for their needs?

    Last month’s trivia question was, “According to a recent study, what is the #1 reason why most Americans leave their job?” and the answer which came from the U. S. Department of Labor was, “Because they don’t feel appreciated. In the workplace, if you’re serving (yes, serving) in role of executive, manager or supervisor, do you turn off the “taskmaster” long enough so your employees see you when you walk through the door each morning – full of greetings, smiles and cheer? Or do they dread seeing you each morning because they know that before they can settle into their chair and get their day planned you will be bearing over them with another work-related question or task?

    This is a great time of the year to take inventory of our behavior and how we interact with family, friends and co-workers. Have you ever thought about what they think of your behavior or how you are perceived and what you could do better? I encourage you to ask them as they’re the ones you interact with most and they’re the best source of valuable feedback on how you can become a better person in your personal and professional life. A positive change in your life just might be the best present you could give someone this Christmas season.

    Did you know?

    December is the 12th month in Gregorian calendar. In Latin, decem, however, means "ten" because December was the tenth month in the Roman calendar until a monthless winter period was divided between January and February.

    Busiest day to shop: Although many believe the Friday after Thanksgiving is the busiest shopping day of the year, its rank varies between fifth - tenth. First place typically belongs to the Friday and Saturday before Christmas.

    Even though commercial cards were not available at that time, in1822 the postmaster in Washington, D.C. was concerned about the volume of mail at Christmas time. His preferred solution to the problem was to limit by law the number of cards a person could send!

    During the Christmas buying season, Visa cards alone are used an average of 5,340 times every minute in the United States.

    In an effort to solicit cash to pay for a charity Christmas dinner in 1891, a large crabpot was set down on a San Francisco street, becoming the first Salvation Army collection kettle.

    Long before the advent of Christianity, plants and trees that remained green all year had a special meaning for people in the winter. Just as people today decorate their homes during the festive season with pine, spruce, and fir trees, ancient peoples hung evergreen boughs over their doors and windows. In many countries it was believed that evergreens would keep away witches, ghosts, evil spirits, and illness. (Excerpt taken from www.history.com)

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