Finding the Compass Back Home
Over the past decade, I've had some really big wins.
And because I've had success amnesia and struggle to celebrate my wins, my accomplishments never seemed good enough.
Fifteen years ago, all I could see was what I was getting wrong.
At that time, I stopped creating big goals (heck, any goals)—and my vision for my business grew smaller.
Then I didn't have to feel as if I was a fraud.
I would simply stick to what was working and not stretch myself any further.
Unconsciously, I chose to live in my comfort zone and stop taking risks.
To the outside world, everything looked good.
~ I had clients.
~ I had my own business.
~ And I had a comfortable life.
Yet, inside, I was dying.
Pieces of me were shriveling up and becoming unrecognizable.
When you understand you have a Divine mission and purpose to fulfill and you're not fully using your gifts, abilities, talents, and experiences for good, it's like having your life force being taken from you.
You start going through the motions without being present to the gift of life.
Over time, you become numb to the possibilities, awe, and wonder that are all around you.
Did you ever watch a little kid,
and how they see the world through the eyes of God?
Everything they notice seems to captivate them and bring them joy.
Somewhere along the way, you lose that as an adult.
Life becomes rote if you let it.
That's what happened to me.
And it's hard to lead yourself or others when you're in this place.
Sometimes when you feel like you're not winning, you get the opportunity to reflect on what winning looks like.
It's a compass that can lead you back home ...
... to a place where health, happiness, success, and meaning are ever-present.
ACTION: The Upside Challenge for the week is to identify one part of your leadership or life that once brought you joy yet now feels routine.
Take one intentional action this week to breathe life back into it—whether that’s reimagining a goal, initiating a meaningful conversation, or revisiting a practice that once inspired you.
Even a single deliberate choice can reset your compass toward the place where health, happiness, success, and meaning grow strong.










